CREATING YOUR OWN DATING CONTRACT

Think about these questions and write down your expectations of a dating relationship. Ansswer the questions below.  

Dating Expectations

1. Please list at least eight expectations you have of someone you will date:
For example, you might say, “I expect that my boyfriend will tell me the truth…”  

I expect              

I expect              

I expect              

I expect              

I expect              

I expect              

I expect              

I expect              

2. Please list five behaviors that you do not like when you are dating someone:  

I do not like it when

             
I do not like it when  

          
I do not like it when  

           
I do not like it when   

           
I do not like it when  

3. Please write down what you will do when someone does something that you do not like. Remember your boundaries.

I will               

If you hurt me, I will             

Information provided by: The Family Violence Project,1615 East Seventeenth Street, Santa Ana, CA 92705

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